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Aging, Mortality, and Care

Registration is Required!

Email lifelonglearningsm@gmail.com to register

 

When:   Thursdays: Apr. 2, 9, 16, 30

Where:  San Marcos Public Library

      Multi-Purpose Room

Time:    10:00-11:15am

Fee:       FREE!

Course Description

If we are fortunate, we will grow older. If we are honest, we know we will die. And as humans, we depend on others as we are depended upon along the way. Yet our culture rarely pauses to examine what these realities mean.

 

This four-part series invites us to reflect together on aging, care, mortality, and meaning. Rather than offering comfort or easy answers, these conversations aim for clarity: What does dignity truly require as we age? What do we owe to one another when independence shifts? Is fear of death rational or distracting? Does a good life require being remembered?

 

Grounded in lived experience and guided by philosophical reflection, this series creates space for serious, respectful conversation about the chapters of life we all share.

 

Apr. 2 – What Does It Mean to Age with Dignity?

This session examines dignity not as appearance, productivity, or independence, but as something grounded in relationships, recognition, and self-understanding. Participants will reflect on how dignity is sustained or diminished in ordinary interactions, in family life, in medical settings, and in public spaces. Rather than romanticizing aging or reducing it to decline, the session asks what it means to remain a full moral presence in a culture that often prizes youth and speed. Our emphasis is on the practical and reflective: how do we speak to one another, make decisions, and structure communities so that dignity is preserved not as a slogan but as a lived reality?

 

Apr. 9 – What Do We Owe to One Another at the End of Life?

In this session we are addressing the ethical terrain surrounding care, autonomy, vulnerability, and obligation as life draws to a close. Participants will consider tensions between respecting individual choice and acknowledging the relational nature of dependence. Questions of medical intervention, family responsibility, emotional labor, and community presence are explored without advocacy for a single position. Our goal is sober clarity: to articulate what we believe we owe to spouses, friends, neighbors, and ourselves when physical or cognitive decline alters the terms of independence. We will address these issues candidly and seriously, grounded in our real experiences rather than abstraction.

 

Apr. 16 – Is Fear of Death Rational, or Does It Distract Us from Living?

This conversation approaches our shared mortality philosophically. We will examine classical and contemporary arguments about whether fearing death is coherent, useful, or misguided. Is death a harm? If so, to whom? Does anxiety about mortality sharpen our priorities or distort them? Rather than offering comfort, we invite careful thinking about finitude, time, and attention. Our aim is intellectual clarity about what death is and is not, and whether our cultural avoidance of the topic serves us well in community, where generational continuity is visible and tangible.

 

Apr. 30 – Does a Good Life Require Being Remembered?

This dialogue explores whether meaning depends on legacy, recognition, or public remembrance. We will consider the difference between living well and being remembered well, and whether the desire for lasting impact is ethically necessary, psychologically understandable, or potentially distracting. Drawing on everyday examples rather than grand achievements, the session invites reflection on quiet contributions, unseen acts of care, and the possibility that value need not be commemorated to be real. We aim for resolution grounded in lived experience rather than aspiration.

 

Presenter: Ron Stockdreher, Lecturer, Dept. of Philosophy, Texas State University

Ron teaches courses in ethics, applied philosophy, environmental ethics, and a developing field known as engaged ecology. His academic work focuses on helping students apply philosophical insight to real-world challenges, with special attention to our ethical responsibilities to each other, to non-human life, and to the planet. Ron also co-founded the Engaged Ecology Initiative, which fosters dialogue between philosophical traditions and contemporary environmental practice. (Note: LifeLong Learning will host monthly dialogues through the Initiative starting in September). Ron has a Master of Arts in Applied Philosophy and Ethics from Texas State.

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